Three days in New York

We had to go to NYC to put in a visa application and, contrary to the title, it was more like 2.5 days, really, since we flew in early Sunday morning and flew out Tuesday afternoon (from Newark) but we were technically there for three days, so whatever. It had been many years since either of us had been to the city; many more so for me than for Tricia. I told her that the last time I'd been there, the number of strip bars in Times Square was far more than the lone one that we saw this time, if that gives you any indication. There had also been much more neon and many fewer giant video screens so, yeah, it's been a while. I didn't really even want to go to Times Square, since rampant commercialism is not really my thing (and, no, I wasn't there for the pr0n during previous visits, either), but it turned out to be a decently positive experience, anyway.

All of that said, in macro terms, the city really hasn't changed since I was there last. A lot of people veer away from concentrated humanity/urbanity of that sort and I can see why. Many people are a lot more conscious of "personal space" issues, but I'm generally oblivious to them. If it means that any sidewalk has to be an exercise in dodge'em, then that's what it means. You just adapt and keep moving. Just like London or really any big city, most people who live there have their own agenda like anyone in smaller towns and aren't really interested in what yours is until or unless they physically run into you. Even then, it's the price of living in a place with a lot of people so you just brush by and move on. In most cases, they didn't mean to collide with you or you with them, so no one cares and everyone has places to be. In terms of getting to those places, we mostly walked but often took the subway, as well. While it is far more modern than the last time I was in town, I have to say that the NYC subway is a small step down from the London Underground in terms of comfort and navigability. It wasn't terrible. Just not quite as good as across the pond and both of them still pale in comparison to the DC Metro, which is still the best train system I've come across in my limited experience. We did end up on the wrong train once and ended up in Brooklyn for a few minutes (first time I've ever been there, as my previous visits were confined to Manhattan and Queens) but otherwise it was about what you'd expect out of the trains. Nothing really thrilling.

As usual, I didn't take many pictures because that's just not my inclination. I'm more about being there "in the moment", I guess. However, the two of mine that are inhabiting this post are from the two bars we ended up visiting, The 11th Street bar in the east Village and Carragher's downtown. As Tricia remarked after we were sitting at the bar at the latter for a few minutes: "We always end up in a bar. And usually a Liverpool bar." To which I could only respond with a shrug and a "Whattaya gonna do?" expression. Thankfully, most of those turn out to be pretty good bars, with 11th Street winning out in this instance. Not only is the neighborhood better, but the bartender spent a lot of time talking to us about the place and where we were from and so on. It's the hangout of the OLSC (Official Liverpool Supporters' Club) for New York. We had missed match day by some 24 hours by the time we were there, but he was still eager to talk to fellow Reds. That wasn't really the case at Carragher's, despite that place being far more festooned with Liverpool regalia as opposed to being the neighborhood Irish joint on non-match days, but the bartender at Carragher's was also dealing with a much larger crowd, since there were only 4 or 5 other people at 11th St, as opposed to the two dozen or so downtown. Football was the source of positive feelings at Times Square, as well, since we discovered the Pelé Soccer store and were able to duck in and grab a couple shirts for this season that I'd wanted from the club but missed out on when the XLs sold out so quickly. A side benefit was the M&M store. PB&J M&Ms aren't bad.

And speaking of that touristy side, we did indulge in a couple things, like the 2nd Avenue Deli, which is a very traditional Jewish joint that is known for their pastrami (partaken; excellent) and their Matzoh ball soup (partaken; also excellent and with kasha(!)) One of the highlights there was the elderly man running the front of the house, who kept up a fairly steady patter with the people cramming in alongside staff and takeout customers to wait on a table. At one point, he turned to a couple fellow waiters and said: "I have a place for you. The problem is that it's at 48th St. but, really, you'll love it!" We also saw a show, which was Drunken Shakespeare at the Ruby Theater, which was well done and involving those three near-essentials of the human condition (sex, alcohol, and Shakespeare.) One of the best things about both of those stops and other places that we went to is that most of them were in Midtown, which meant that we could either walk the whole distance or hop a train for a couple minutes and then walk (or vice-versa) and be where we wanted to be, as opposed to the completely car-centric existence that most people in Michigan have to maintain. This just reinforces my desire to live in an urban area, simply so that I can literally walk a block or two from my front door to find all of those other essentials (food, etc.) and not have to drive miles away to find them. In point of fact, I continued to ogle at the number of non-taxi/non-Uber cars in the city, especially in congested places like Times Square, wondering why anyone would want to endure that frustration when they could knock elbows for a couple minutes and get where they wanted to be. But, again, that's the difference between those accustomed to living with other humans and those trying to avoid that condition. Whattaya gonna do?

The Others' problem

Derek nominated me for one of those silly games on Facebook the other day, where you're supposed to give an image of a film that "impacted you" without any other explanation and then nominate someone else to also participate. Movie enthusiast that I am, I figured I'd actually join in, despite my attention given to Facebook being minimal, at best. Over the first three days, I picked three films that really stand out to me and which I may write some detail about later. On the fourth day- today -I picked another that I'm really fond of: Escape from New York.

I'm a big fan of John Carpenter's early career. I think there was a tension to his technique that really made his work shine, even on the lower budgets that he was often working with or the, uh... less than stellar material. Let's not kid ourselves: Escape is a B movie. Despite the presence of bankable stars like Kurt Russell, Isaac Hayes, and Lee Van Cleef, the story is pretty shallow and no one gives a performance that would see them considered for a little, gold statue. It's your average, nigh-on post-apoc, speculative fiction (e.g. "What if World War III really happened AND crime ran out of control?!") There were a lot of them in those days; still firmly embedded in the Cold War and with a stagnant economy that Reagan had not yet performed his "miracle" upon. I had been politically aware for a few years by then and was in Tennessee, attending a small, recently post-military school outside Knoxville. When we finally convinced our floor manager to let us walk into Sweetwater, the local town, and catch the latest Hollywood depiction of a destroyed Statue of Liberty (all of us with fond memories of the end of the original Planet of the Apes (spoiler!), despite said image having little to do with Escape), we hit a brief moment of nirvana.

Here was a hardass ex-soldier who spoke in an OTT, raspy growl, dropping into New York, the locus of crime and corruption (even as a Detroit native, I remember this impression), and taking on the whole city so he could get out in the process of... rescuing the president? Wait. What? Even at that age, I was pretty much a cynic and reflexively distrusted most American officials of any kind. I had no idea why Snake Plissken would want to rescue the leader of the system that created so many problems! (Even then, I was pretty much a Marxist, too.) Of course, Snake felt the same way ("The president of what?"), until he was effectively blackmailed into it. So, yeah, instant hero identification. But as we got through the film and came to the last scene; the one that takes place in that image above, I realized that this was something unusual for my young eyes and brain. Not only was Snake an anti-hero, doing the right thing incidentally, rather than intentionally, but the opposition was more complex than your typical villain, too. Bob Hauk (Van Cleef) was trying to maintain order, within the prison and within the nation, which was his job (and saving a life, I guess.) The Duke of New York (A #1!; Hayes) was trying to speak for an entire city of supposed criminals; heavy with the implication that something akin to martial law had dropped them into this Lord of the Flies situation, justly or not. And the president (Donald Pleasance) wasn't some corrupt mastermind, devising ways to screw everyone for his own benefit. No, the thing that stood out most to me about that president is the same problem that most of them carry, intentionally or not, fictional or real.

It was the indifference.

The poignant moment of that scene depicted above is Snake's pointed question to the man he'd just risked his life to rescue and that several others had given theirs to enable. The president's response to that question is a blank acknowledgement that people he didn't care about did something to make sure he was still among the living. He was more worried about being on camera in a couple minutes (similar to the current idiot.) He was oblivious to the suffering, the trauma, and the struggle that took place to make sure that he was still president and "leader of the free world." As we sit here with Minneapolis burning as a response to yet another Black man being murdered by the police ostensibly there to protect him and all of us, that indifference is the thing that once again really stands out to me.

The manifestations of it are all around us. It is always happening to someone else. Therefore, why should we care? It's especially easy in the case of those of us who are White Americans. Black people are already deemed The Other. That bad stuff only happens to The Others and usually because they encouraged it somehow, right? It's the same situation with COVID-19. "I won't get it! I'm invincible!" Yeah, sure. You're invincible. But it's not about you. It's about all of the other people that you might transmit it to who don't happen to be invincible in their own mind like you. "But it's mostly affecting nursing homes and old people and I'm not old and I don't go to those places!" Sigh... This is just like when Republicans argue against national healthcare... right up until that moment when some part of their family goes bankrupt because of cancer or a similar situation. Then, suddenly, they realize that "this is a problem that affects all of us!"

But in this case, it doesn't affect all of us. It affects Black people. In most cases, even other minorities in this nation don't live in fear of being approached by the police. Only Black people. White people may get nervous about how fast we're driving when we pass a cop on the highway. But we don't fear being pulled over just because we're driving. And it's not just the harassment. As situations like George Floyd, Sandra Bland, Terrence Crutcher, and Michael Brown (and on and on and on...) demonstrate, their very existence is enough to encourage treatment that results in their death. Or we go one step further and discover that even being shot by non-cops isn't always sufficient to be treated as not The Other, as in the case of Ahmad Arbery, without massive public pressure. That's the purest example of racism: the treatment of others as if they were less than human. Less than animal, in some cases. How many people were just as outraged over Amy Cooper's treatment of her dog as they were over the fact that she lied to the police in order to encourage them to come and deal with this Black man who had only asked her to follow the law? She made that call and made it in that manner because she knew there was a high possibility that Cooper would be mistreated by said police; perhaps even killed. She made that call with malice. That's racism. But she was indifferent to the effects on him. That's also racism.

It's that indifference that is something of a plague on the fabled "American experiment." The idea of individualism emphasizes the suppression of feelings of consideration for others; of taking their feelings and well-being, physical and mental, into account when trying to climb the ladder of success. Even worse, the death of the American dream means that the 99% are reduced to stepping on each others' heads, regardless of the consequences, often even as they try to reach a point of sustainability, to say nothing of what most Americans deem "success." What that phenomenon means for society at large is multiplied tenfold for Black Americans.

And if we're going to get through the remainder of Republican control of government; if we're going to survive as a nation that serves the majority, rather than a wealthy minority; if we're going to pull down those edifices of wealth and redress the wrongs that that hoarding of wealth creates; then it's going to take all of us, of whatever color and of whatever gender. We can no longer look aside from what afflicts The Other. We can no longer ignore the fact that our Black brothers and sisters are people that need our help against a system designed to oppress them and a perception weighted against them. We can no longer be indifferent to the suffering of others if we are to call ourselves human. ("The name's 'Plissken'.")